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06 July 2026
Fasting is a statement of humility

Fasting is a statement of humility | BoladeonWebsite

"Fasting is a statement of humility. When God sees you humbling yourself, He will exalt you." #fasting 2?We all have our favorite food. For me, it’s rice. I hon ...

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06 July 2026
The highest compliment we can receive

The highest compliment we can receive | BoladeonWebsite

"The highest compliment we can receive is the referral of your friends, family, and business associates." ...Still on favor. ?In the corporate world, it’s stand ...

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06 July 2026
Adoption is one of the most powerful forms of human-to-human love

Adoption is one of the most powerful forms of human-to-human love | BoladeonWebsite

"Adoption is one of the most powerful forms of human-to-human love you can show."— Bolade Onilari?A few months ago, I found myself deeply reflecting on the conc ...

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06 July 2026
Favour is what happens when preparation meets opportunity

Favour is what happens when preparation meets opportunity | BoladeonWebsite

"Favour is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." Proverbs 3:3-4 NKJV[3] Let not mercy and truth forsake you; Bind them around your neck, Write them ...

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06 July 2026
You will never find a rainbow if you’re looking down

You will never find a rainbow if you’re looking down | BoladeonWebsite

"You will never find a rainbow if you’re looking down." Proverbs 12:25 NKJV[25] Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, But a good word makes it glad.Dep ...

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06 July 2026
Our ability to reach unity in diversity

Our ability to reach unity in diversity | BoladeonWebsite

"Our ability to reach unity in diversity will be the beauty and the test of our civilization."The world needs us! Division in our society does not benefit anyon ...

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06 July 2026
A good wife is Royal in Heart

A good wife is Royal in Heart | BoladeonWebsite

"A good wife is Royal in Heart. She is a crown to her husband, and pride to the home where she was raised." #RoyalforareasonRoyal crowns are symbolic head adorn ...

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06 July 2026
Do not bury your dreams, but choose to bury your doubts

Do not bury your dreams, but choose to bury your doubts | BoladeonWebsite

"Do not bury your dreams, but choose to bury your doubts. Doubts are enemies of a fruitful life," #RoyalforareasonI was reading the scriptures today and realise ...

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06 July 2026
Your left hand is what you know; your right hand is who you are

Your left hand is what you know; your right hand is who you are | BoladeonWebsite

"Your left hand is what you know; your right hand is who you are." #RoyalforareasonIn most cultures the left hand is often seen and regarded as less important t ...

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06 July 2026
Why not show off if you’ve got something to show?

Why not show off if you’ve got something to show? | BoladeonWebsite

Why not show off if you’ve got something to show? #RoyalforareasonWhen our kids were younger, the school they attended would ask them to bring an item that mean ...

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04 July 2026
No access to public funds

No access to public funds | BoladeonWebsite

"No access to public funds" #HeavenlyrealitiesI came into the UK on a student visa. There was a restriction on that visa: "No access to public funds," meaning I ...

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04 July 2026
The wonder of life begins in the womb of a woman

The wonder of life begins in the womb of a woman | BoladeonWebsite

"The wonder of life begins in the womb of a woman." #GodscreationThe womb of a woman brought the saviour of the world; the womb of a woman is the hope the world ...

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04 July 2026
Now the Lord God said

Now the Lord God said | BoladeonWebsite

Now the Lord God said, “It is not good (beneficial) for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper [one who balances him—a counterpart who is] suitable and c ...

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04 July 2026
Light can only shine through broken vessels.

Light can only shine through broken vessels. | BoladeonWebsite

"Light can only shine through broken vessels." #GodscreationThis lump of clay has had an interesting life so far!Being born with a disease that would normally m ...

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04 July 2026
Just because a man lacks the use of his eyes doesn’t mean he lack

Just because a man lacks the use of his eyes doesn’t mean he lack | BoladeonWebsite

"Just because a man lacks the use of his eyes doesn’t mean he lacks vision." #GodscreationNiki came with me on one of my visits to the optometrist. As I was ask ...

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03 July 2026
Loneliness is not the absence of affection but the absence of dir

Loneliness is not the absence of affection but the absence of dir | BoladeonWebsite

Loneliness is not the absence of affection but the absence of direction." #Godscreation"When I leave work on Friday, I don’t see anyone else till Monday when I ...

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03 July 2026
And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with...

And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with... | BoladeonWebsite

"And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man." Luke 2:52 ESV #GodscreationIncrease and growth is the way God designed humans. If ...

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02 July 2026
If the big rocks don’t go in first...

If the big rocks don’t go in first... | BoladeonWebsite

"If the big rocks don’t go in first, they are not going to fit later." #GodscreationIn 2010, when we got married, I decided to visit Kogoro Hills. My mother-in- ...

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02 July 2026
Just as gold is purified in fire, so the soul is purified in suff

Just as gold is purified in fire, so the soul is purified in suff | BoladeonWebsite

"Just as gold is purified in fire, so the soul is purified in suffering." #GodscreationWhen Niki and I were about to get married, we decided our wedding band wo ...

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05 March 2025
If you have the ability to work and are able to work

If you have the ability to work and are able to work | BoladeonWebsite

Deuteronomy 8:17-18 CEV[17] When you become successful, don’t say, “I’m rich, and I’ve earned it all myself.” [18] Instead, remember that the Lord your God give ...

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05 March 2025
Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen

Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen | BoladeonWebsite

"Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen" - #KingdomcultureDisclaimer: I write this with sober thought. As one who is in the age of life- to be easily tempted by a s ...

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05 March 2025
The Small Kitchen — #kindomculture

The Small Kitchen — #kindomculture | BoladeonWebsite

When Niki and I got married, she moved into the house I rented in Coventry. I moved to Coventry 6 months before we got married. The house I was in was a 3-bed ( ...

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03 March 2025
Good Morning! Translation Ekaaro! #kingdomculture

Good Morning! Translation Ekaaro! #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

In the culture I grew up in, saying "Good morning" is a big deal, especially the younger saying it to the older. I believe this is the same in most cultures, bu ...

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03 March 2025
The greatest way to predict your future is to create it!

The greatest way to predict your future is to create it! | BoladeonWebsite

"The greatest way to predict your future is to create it!" #KingdomcultureI was listening to a preacher once, and he said the greatest, most effective platform ...

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03 March 2025
Repentance is the grace of a lifetime, like faith itself. #king

Repentance is the grace of a lifetime, like faith itself. #king | BoladeonWebsite

Before Niki and I started having children, we said to ourselves, If we have a son, we’ll call him David.I love King David in the Bible. A man that loves God but ...

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03 March 2025
Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against

Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against | BoladeonWebsite

In some cultures, a naming ceremony is done on day 7 after a child is born. They will give children prophetic names or something surrounding the child’s birth.F ...

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03 March 2025
A husband should make his wife feel like she is...

A husband should make his wife feel like she is... | BoladeonWebsite

"A husband should make his wife feel like she is the most important person in the world." - A key to answered prayers! #kingdomcultureNiki will tell you I have ...

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03 March 2025
Touching Heaven, Spirit, lead me. #kingdomculture

Touching Heaven, Spirit, lead me. #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

Speaking the truth in love is the responsibility of the speaker, and the responsibility of the hearer is to discern if what comes to the hearer is the truth. Ho ...

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03 March 2025
Thank you! #kingdomculture

Thank you! #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

I have to say a massive thank you for the engagement in my "social media reflections.". In case you are wondering, why is he doing this now? Well, I’ve done thi ...

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31 January 2025
YOUR FACE

YOUR FACE | BoladeonWebsite

YOUR FACE-My lovely wife loves personalized gifts. For our Tenth wedding anniversary (3 years ago) she gave me a special ring. Engraved on this ring was a famil ...

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31 January 2025
Motivate me to be better

Motivate me to be better | BoladeonWebsite

Motivate me to be better -I thank God every day I wake up next to my lovely wife. Well, should I say most days . Sometimes we go to bed having argued but we are ...

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31 January 2025
Man Bag

Man Bag | BoladeonWebsite

Man Bag -For a long time, I hated them. When I see someone carry them I say in my heart you won’t see me carry that! Then I got for as a birthday gift some mont ...

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31 January 2025
Focus is the elimination of Options

Focus is the elimination of Options | BoladeonWebsite

"Focus is the elimination of Options"My beautiful and talented wife has written 6 books all in the time I’ve known her. I often get asked- "how does she do it"? ...

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31 January 2025
Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater

Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater | BoladeonWebsite

Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater.I grew up in a part of Nigeria where you hardly see cats. There are a lot of superstitions surrounding cats and you w ...

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31 January 2025
Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire

Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire | BoladeonWebsite

"Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire to protect something you love!"Some years ago the director of the company I used to work for invite ...

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31 January 2025
Try as much as possible to live on one person’s income!

Try as much as possible to live on one person’s income! | BoladeonWebsite

A wise man once said to me, "When you get married, try as much as possible to live on one person’s income!" I thought in my mind if only you knew how much debt ...

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31 January 2025
Failure is not an event but an opinion. - You are fired!

Failure is not an event but an opinion. - You are fired! | BoladeonWebsite

"Failure is not an event but an opinion." - You are fired!The year was 2010; Niki and I just got married, and we were around 6 months into our marriage. Niki wa ...

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31 January 2025
Put that leg down! In pain and fright, I grudgingly obeyed

Put that leg down! In pain and fright, I grudgingly obeyed | BoladeonWebsite

"Put that leg down!" In pain and fright, I grudgingly obeyed—pushing through pain.A lot of my friends and family will know I suffer from a condition called sick ...

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31 January 2025
The Family Car- Always be humble and gentle.

The Family Car- Always be humble and gentle. | BoladeonWebsite

"The Family Car"- Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Eph 4vs2In 2014, when ...

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30 January 2025
In his assessment, he thought he died! - PART 2

In his assessment, he thought he died! - PART 2 | BoladeonWebsite

In his assessment, he thought he died but then was brought to life!- BUT YOU BE THE JUDGE! (PART 2) #productofmercyI was rushed to the A&E department at Warwick ...

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30 January 2025
The Old Computer -The Wife - My Omoge for life!

The Old Computer -The Wife - My Omoge for life! | BoladeonWebsite

The Old Computer -The Wife - My Omoge for Life!I had an outstanding day yesterday. Outstanding in so many ways.One of the outstanding moments is this:I had the ...

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30 January 2025
In his assessment, he thought he died! - THE FNAL PART

In his assessment, he thought he died! - THE FNAL PART | BoladeonWebsite

In his assessment, he thought he died but then was brought to life! - BUT YOU BETHE JUDGE- THE FNAL PARTI’LL ADVICE YOU LOOK FOR INTRO, PART 1, 2, 3 &4As days w ...

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30 January 2025
Bridle your tongue

Bridle your tongue | BoladeonWebsite

"Bridle your tongue"— #lovingyourselfIf we’ve learnt anything during the pandemic, it is that loss of smell and taste is not nice! But you’ll agree with me that ...

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30 January 2025
Your significance is not in your similarity

Your significance is not in your similarity | BoladeonWebsite

"Your significance is not in your similarity to another but in your point of difference from another." - Niki’s Plus 1 #lovingyourselfIn most areas we’ve lived ...

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30 January 2025
I am blessed!

I am blessed! | BoladeonWebsite

"I am blessed!" #lovingyorselfA few weeks ago we had some great friends around at ours. It was the last Sunday of 2024, and people were sharing how God had been ...

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30 January 2025
Mum and Dad have had a look

Mum and Dad have had a look | BoladeonWebsite

"Mum and Dad have had a look"—Parental guidance! #lovingyourselfA friend of mine alerted me to a situation they became aware of. When they told me about it, my ...

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30 January 2025
Do you want cake? I’m ok love

Do you want cake? I’m ok love | BoladeonWebsite

Do you want cake? I’m ok love, I need to keep an eye on the Six pack . Ok then, I’ll have it all! - Niki loves Cake too much! #lovingyourself1 Corinthians 13:4- ...

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30 January 2025
Reflecting His Glory

Reflecting His Glory | BoladeonWebsite

"Reflecting His Glory" - #lovingyourselfI know a girl; her name is Afiniki. She started Forte Charity for Inspiration. She was in the middle of a mess (so we th ...

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30 January 2025
The moment you start thinking you are humble, then you are not!

The moment you start thinking you are humble, then you are not! | BoladeonWebsite

"The moment you start thinking you are humble, then you are not!" #lovingyourselfBefore January 2024, I worked in community pharmacies based on the high street. ...

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29 January 2025
Faithful in the Little

Faithful in the Little | BoladeonWebsite

Some years ago my kids asked for a pet chicken.I am a natural animal lover but my wife is not as much. The only pet my wife loves which I hate is a cat! Sorry c ...

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