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05 March 2025
The key is not to prioritise what’s on your schedule

The key is not to prioritise what’s on your schedule | BoladeonWebsite

"The key is not to prioritise what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities." - #kingdomcultureI am a super proud daddy. My daughter, who is primary ...

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05 March 2025
Change your thoughts and you change your world.

Change your thoughts and you change your world. | BoladeonWebsite

"Change your thoughts and you change your world." —The Black Goldfish #kingdomcultureI love keeping goldfish. A few years ago, Niki decided to get some new ones ...

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05 March 2025
We reveal most about ourselves when we speak about others.

We reveal most about ourselves when we speak about others. | BoladeonWebsite

"We reveal most about ourselves when we speak about others." - #KingdomcultureGossiping is something that permeates our culture. In a work environment, you don’ ...

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05 March 2025
If you have the ability to work and are able to work

If you have the ability to work and are able to work | BoladeonWebsite

Deuteronomy 8:17-18 CEV[17] When you become successful, don’t say, “I’m rich, and I’ve earned it all myself.” [18] Instead, remember that the Lord your God give ...

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05 March 2025
Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen

Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen | BoladeonWebsite

"Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen" - #KingdomcultureDisclaimer: I write this with sober thought. As one who is in the age of life- to be easily tempted by a s ...

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05 March 2025
Confession of errors is like a broom

Confession of errors is like a broom | BoladeonWebsite

Sometime last year, I wrote and spoke about losing a job due to my own dishonesty. Up until that social media post, I thought I had moved on from the incident b ...

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05 March 2025
The best form of leadership is leading by example.

The best form of leadership is leading by example. | BoladeonWebsite

When I moved to Coventry in 2010, I started attending a church. At the church, I met a couple in the next stage of life I aspire to be. At this point in my life ...

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05 March 2025
You’ll never outgrow warfare; you must simply learn to fight.

You’ll never outgrow warfare; you must simply learn to fight. | BoladeonWebsite

If you’re facing a difficult season or day while reading this. I want you to know that you are already an overcomer. Strap yourself up in praise knowing you ser ...

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05 March 2025
What are you saying? Stop that nonsense!

What are you saying? Stop that nonsense! | BoladeonWebsite

"What are you saying? Stop that nonsense!" #kingdomcultureI had a friend when I was growing up, the family lived a few streets away from us. They had a daughter ...

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05 March 2025
If your actions inspire others to dream more...

If your actions inspire others to dream more... | BoladeonWebsite

"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." #kingdomcultureIn my experience as a manager at work, I’ ...

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05 March 2025
Be conscious of every action

Be conscious of every action | BoladeonWebsite

"1 Thessalonians 5:19 AMP[19] Do not quench [subdue, or be unresponsive to the working and guidance of] the [Holy] Spirit." #kindomcultureEphesians 4:29-31 NLT[ ...

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05 March 2025
Why are you frantically finding wood to touch?

Why are you frantically finding wood to touch? | BoladeonWebsite

"Why are you frantically finding wood to touch?" #kingdomcultureWhen some of my customers want to express how something has never happened to them or hope it do ...

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05 March 2025
The Small Kitchen — #kindomculture

The Small Kitchen — #kindomculture | BoladeonWebsite

When Niki and I got married, she moved into the house I rented in Coventry. I moved to Coventry 6 months before we got married. The house I was in was a 3-bed ( ...

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03 March 2025
Mo Iwe, mo way. Translation—Study but also be street smart #ki

Mo Iwe, mo way. Translation—Study but also be street smart #ki | BoladeonWebsite

Growing up, the quote above is one I heard a lot. Not from home but from the area I grew up in. Study hard but also be street smart!On the face of it, one could ...

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03 March 2025
Good Morning! Translation Ekaaro! #kingdomculture

Good Morning! Translation Ekaaro! #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

In the culture I grew up in, saying "Good morning" is a big deal, especially the younger saying it to the older. I believe this is the same in most cultures, bu ...

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03 March 2025
No one was ever honoured for what they received

No one was ever honoured for what they received | BoladeonWebsite

"No one was ever honoured for what they received; honour has been, and will be, the reward for what they gave!" #kingdomcultureIn many cultures, honour is seen ...

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03 March 2025
The greatest way to predict your future is to create it!

The greatest way to predict your future is to create it! | BoladeonWebsite

"The greatest way to predict your future is to create it!" #KingdomcultureI was listening to a preacher once, and he said the greatest, most effective platform ...

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03 March 2025
Repentance is the grace of a lifetime, like faith itself. #king

Repentance is the grace of a lifetime, like faith itself. #king | BoladeonWebsite

Before Niki and I started having children, we said to ourselves, If we have a son, we’ll call him David.I love King David in the Bible. A man that loves God but ...

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03 March 2025
Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against

Thy word I have treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against | BoladeonWebsite

In some cultures, a naming ceremony is done on day 7 after a child is born. They will give children prophetic names or something surrounding the child’s birth.F ...

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03 March 2025
A husband should make his wife feel like she is...

A husband should make his wife feel like she is... | BoladeonWebsite

"A husband should make his wife feel like she is the most important person in the world." - A key to answered prayers! #kingdomcultureNiki will tell you I have ...

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03 March 2025
Some conversations have the potential of changing our lives

Some conversations have the potential of changing our lives | BoladeonWebsite

Some conversations have the potential to change our lives and destiny. I believe the most powerful conversation we can have with someone is that which introduce ...

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03 March 2025
Touching Heaven, Spirit, lead me. #kingdomculture

Touching Heaven, Spirit, lead me. #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

Speaking the truth in love is the responsibility of the speaker, and the responsibility of the hearer is to discern if what comes to the hearer is the truth. Ho ...

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03 March 2025
It’s not about what it is; it’s about what it can become

It’s not about what it is; it’s about what it can become | BoladeonWebsite

“It’s not about what it is; it’s about what it can become.” #kingdomcultureOur kids are getting to the age where we are trying to get them to play their part in ...

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03 March 2025
Thank you! #kingdomculture

Thank you! #kingdomculture | BoladeonWebsite

I have to say a massive thank you for the engagement in my "social media reflections.". In case you are wondering, why is he doing this now? Well, I’ve done thi ...

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03 March 2025
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow | BoladeonWebsite

"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.". #GodcreationI used to think I was not into nature until God opened my eyes to ...

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03 March 2025
When you focus on being a blessing

When you focus on being a blessing | BoladeonWebsite

"When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance." #GodscreationWe recently had a family holiday in Rome. I was capt ...

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31 January 2025
The lasting Legacy

The lasting Legacy | BoladeonWebsite

The lasting LegacyPsalms 112:1?-?4 NLTReading these verses recently made me reflect on the generation ahead of my generation in my family, and I can largely say ...

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31 January 2025
Representation Matters

Representation Matters | BoladeonWebsite

Representation Matters:For almost 40 years of my existence on earth, I’ve never had a plaster of my skin colour on my skin. It is something that never crossed m ...

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31 January 2025
The Young Wise Pharmacist

The Young Wise Pharmacist | BoladeonWebsite

The Young Wise Pharmacist-I have worked as a community pharmacist in the UK for over 15 years. For the last two years, I have job-shared with a younger pharmaci ...

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31 January 2025
5-min on that clock is too fast

5-min on that clock is too fast | BoladeonWebsite

5-min on that clock is too fast! -If you live in a house without a combi boiler in the UK you will understand how precious hot water is and the need to manage i ...

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31 January 2025
YOUR FACE

YOUR FACE | BoladeonWebsite

YOUR FACE-My lovely wife loves personalized gifts. For our Tenth wedding anniversary (3 years ago) she gave me a special ring. Engraved on this ring was a famil ...

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31 January 2025
Scared by my own shadow

Scared by my own shadow | BoladeonWebsite

Scared by my own shadow I love going for morning walks and as the dark winter mornings draw in, I have been using my phone as a torchlight. Usually, when I go o ...

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31 January 2025
What is that light?

What is that light? | BoladeonWebsite

What is that light? -A few years ago my lovely wife upgraded her car.Normally when we make purchases like this, I like to be part of the decision-maker as I lik ...

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31 January 2025
Being available is doing something

Being available is doing something | BoladeonWebsite

Being available is doing something -A couple of years ago I changed my working pattern. Up to this time, I have worked five or six days a week and for so many y ...

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31 January 2025
The Big Red Speaker

The Big Red Speaker | BoladeonWebsite

The Big Red Speaker -When I was at Uni, my friend and I were house DJs. We were invited to house parties, and weddings and in one instance organised an end-of-s ...

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31 January 2025
Motivate me to be better

Motivate me to be better | BoladeonWebsite

Motivate me to be better -I thank God every day I wake up next to my lovely wife. Well, should I say most days . Sometimes we go to bed having argued but we are ...

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31 January 2025
Man Bag

Man Bag | BoladeonWebsite

Man Bag -For a long time, I hated them. When I see someone carry them I say in my heart you won’t see me carry that! Then I got for as a birthday gift some mont ...

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31 January 2025
When you commit, you build HOPE

When you commit, you build HOPE | BoladeonWebsite

When you commit you build HOPE, when you keep a commitment you build TRUST-The statement above requires a relationship. We commit to something or people and we ...

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31 January 2025
When he had hair

When he had hair | BoladeonWebsite

When he had hair-I believe one of the reasons younger siblings are created is to make fun of older siblings. It is part of our DNA and a role that brings me so ...

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31 January 2025
Patience is a virtue that forces deception to reveal itself

Patience is a virtue that forces deception to reveal itself | BoladeonWebsite

Patience is a virtue that forces deception to reveal itself-I have been reflecting on this quote and it has been thought-provoking.Thought-provoking in the sens ...

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31 January 2025
Happy New Year - 2024!

Happy New Year - 2024! | BoladeonWebsite

Happy New Year -Health is wealth they say. I am grateful to be alive and grateful to have you as friends.My friends will know I suffer from a condition called s ...

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31 January 2025
Focus is the elimination of Options

Focus is the elimination of Options | BoladeonWebsite

"Focus is the elimination of Options"My beautiful and talented wife has written 6 books all in the time I’ve known her. I often get asked- "how does she do it"? ...

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31 January 2025
The team you are on is more important ...

The team you are on is more important ... | BoladeonWebsite

I sat in a leadership class yesterday, and I heard the quote above! This made me reflect on different aspects of life, but in particular, parenting!I have come ...

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31 January 2025
Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater

Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater | BoladeonWebsite

Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater.I grew up in a part of Nigeria where you hardly see cats. There are a lot of superstitions surrounding cats and you w ...

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31 January 2025
Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire

Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire | BoladeonWebsite

"Power is the ability to walk away from something you desire to protect something you love!"Some years ago the director of the company I used to work for invite ...

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31 January 2025
There’s no way to judge good or bad except through purpose

There’s no way to judge good or bad except through purpose | BoladeonWebsite

"There’s no way to judge good or bad except through purpose "A few weeks ago we had some old neighbours round for dinner. As we were chatting the conversation t ...

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31 January 2025
Get out of my Street! said the clueless Nigerian Boy

Get out of my Street! said the clueless Nigerian Boy | BoladeonWebsite

"Get out of my Street!" said the clueless Nigerian Boy.In my first two years of Uni, I lived in the university halls of residence then I moved out and lived wit ...

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31 January 2025
Try as much as possible to live on one person’s income!

Try as much as possible to live on one person’s income! | BoladeonWebsite

A wise man once said to me, "When you get married, try as much as possible to live on one person’s income!" I thought in my mind if only you knew how much debt ...

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31 January 2025
Tribal Marks

Tribal Marks | BoladeonWebsite

Tribal Marks-The gentleman in the picture is my dad. His name is Benjamin Olaniyi Onilari. He lived from 5-05-1945 to 8-07-2009. I love him dearly. As you might ...

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31 January 2025
Failure is not an event but an opinion. - You are fired!

Failure is not an event but an opinion. - You are fired! | BoladeonWebsite

"Failure is not an event but an opinion." - You are fired!The year was 2010; Niki and I just got married, and we were around 6 months into our marriage. Niki wa ...

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