"The key is not to prioritise what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities." - #kingdomcultureI am a super proud daddy. My daughter, who is primary ...
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"Change your thoughts and you change your world." —The Black Goldfish #kingdomcultureI love keeping goldfish. A few years ago, Niki decided to get some new ones ...
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"We reveal most about ourselves when we speak about others." - #KingdomcultureGossiping is something that permeates our culture. In a work environment, you don’ ...
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"Side Chick, Side Chicken, Side Hen" - #KingdomcultureDisclaimer: I write this with sober thought. As one who is in the age of life- to be easily tempted by a s ...
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Sometime last year, I wrote and spoke about losing a job due to my own dishonesty. Up until that social media post, I thought I had moved on from the incident b ...
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When I moved to Coventry in 2010, I started attending a church. At the church, I met a couple in the next stage of life I aspire to be. At this point in my life ...
If you’re facing a difficult season or day while reading this. I want you to know that you are already an overcomer. Strap yourself up in praise knowing you ser ...
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"What are you saying? Stop that nonsense!" #kingdomcultureI had a friend when I was growing up, the family lived a few streets away from us. They had a daughter ...
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"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." #kingdomcultureIn my experience as a manager at work, I’ ...
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"1 Thessalonians 5:19 AMP[19] Do not quench [subdue, or be unresponsive to the working and guidance of] the [Holy] Spirit." #kindomcultureEphesians 4:29-31 NLT[ ...
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"Why are you frantically finding wood to touch?" #kingdomcultureWhen some of my customers want to express how something has never happened to them or hope it do ...
When Niki and I got married, she moved into the house I rented in Coventry. I moved to Coventry 6 months before we got married. The house I was in was a 3-bed ( ...
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Growing up, the quote above is one I heard a lot. Not from home but from the area I grew up in. Study hard but also be street smart!On the face of it, one could ...
"No one was ever honoured for what they received; honour has been, and will be, the reward for what they gave!" #kingdomcultureIn many cultures, honour is seen ...
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Before Niki and I started having children, we said to ourselves, If we have a son, we’ll call him David.I love King David in the Bible. A man that loves God but ...
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In some cultures, a naming ceremony is done on day 7 after a child is born. They will give children prophetic names or something surrounding the child’s birth.F ...
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"A husband should make his wife feel like she is the most important person in the world." - A key to answered prayers! #kingdomcultureNiki will tell you I have ...
“It’s not about what it is; it’s about what it can become.” #kingdomcultureOur kids are getting to the age where we are trying to get them to play their part in ...
I have to say a massive thank you for the engagement in my "social media reflections.". In case you are wondering, why is he doing this now? Well, I’ve done thi ...
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"Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.". #GodcreationI used to think I was not into nature until God opened my eyes to ...
"When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance." #GodscreationWe recently had a family holiday in Rome. I was capt ...
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The lasting LegacyPsalms 112:1?-?4 NLTReading these verses recently made me reflect on the generation ahead of my generation in my family, and I can largely say ...
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Representation Matters:For almost 40 years of my existence on earth, I’ve never had a plaster of my skin colour on my skin. It is something that never crossed m ...
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The Young Wise Pharmacist-I have worked as a community pharmacist in the UK for over 15 years. For the last two years, I have job-shared with a younger pharmaci ...
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5-min on that clock is too fast! -If you live in a house without a combi boiler in the UK you will understand how precious hot water is and the need to manage i ...
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YOUR FACE-My lovely wife loves personalized gifts. For our Tenth wedding anniversary (3 years ago) she gave me a special ring. Engraved on this ring was a famil ...
Scared by my own shadow I love going for morning walks and as the dark winter mornings draw in, I have been using my phone as a torchlight. Usually, when I go o ...
What is that light? -A few years ago my lovely wife upgraded her car.Normally when we make purchases like this, I like to be part of the decision-maker as I lik ...
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Being available is doing something -A couple of years ago I changed my working pattern. Up to this time, I have worked five or six days a week and for so many y ...
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The Big Red Speaker -When I was at Uni, my friend and I were house DJs. We were invited to house parties, and weddings and in one instance organised an end-of-s ...
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Motivate me to be better -I thank God every day I wake up next to my lovely wife. Well, should I say most days . Sometimes we go to bed having argued but we are ...
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When you commit you build HOPE, when you keep a commitment you build TRUST-The statement above requires a relationship. We commit to something or people and we ...
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When he had hair-I believe one of the reasons younger siblings are created is to make fun of older siblings. It is part of our DNA and a role that brings me so ...
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Patience is a virtue that forces deception to reveal itself-I have been reflecting on this quote and it has been thought-provoking.Thought-provoking in the sens ...
Happy New Year -Health is wealth they say. I am grateful to be alive and grateful to have you as friends.My friends will know I suffer from a condition called s ...
"Focus is the elimination of Options"My beautiful and talented wife has written 6 books all in the time I’ve known her. I often get asked- "how does she do it"? ...
I sat in a leadership class yesterday, and I heard the quote above! This made me reflect on different aspects of life, but in particular, parenting!I have come ...
Never say Never!- The story of a cat hater.I grew up in a part of Nigeria where you hardly see cats. There are a lot of superstitions surrounding cats and you w ...
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"There’s no way to judge good or bad except through purpose "A few weeks ago we had some old neighbours round for dinner. As we were chatting the conversation t ...
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"Get out of my Street!" said the clueless Nigerian Boy.In my first two years of Uni, I lived in the university halls of residence then I moved out and lived wit ...
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A wise man once said to me, "When you get married, try as much as possible to live on one person’s income!" I thought in my mind if only you knew how much debt ...
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Tribal Marks-The gentleman in the picture is my dad. His name is Benjamin Olaniyi Onilari. He lived from 5-05-1945 to 8-07-2009. I love him dearly. As you might ...
"Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficul ...
"Your mentors don’t have to look like you; open your heart to receive from anyone."We live in a world that seeks to divide based on race, social economics class ...
"Why do we say kingdom and not ’queendom’?" - Kids ask the most amazing questions!Some time ago I was having a chat with a good friend; she told me that their d ...
"The Family Car"- Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Eph 4vs2In 2014, when ...
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"Truth for Sale! Only edible when wrapped in sugar coating." #lovingyourself (PART 1)Some drugs are manufactured with extra sugar and sweeteners to make the med ...
"Truth for Sale! Only edible when wrapped in sugar coating." #lovingyourself (PART 2)Look for Part 1 Read this psalm about Jesus, but it displays a principle of ...
He had a big sticker on his Bible that says "Redeemed Christian Church of God"! -There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer tha ...
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"God places the lonely in families"- Ps 68 Vs 6aThe family pictured below are called the Ilesanmis.I came to the UK in 2001 and found myself in Liverpool in 200 ...
